Your household chief of staff · by Mngd
Not a chatbot.
Not an assistant.
A chief of staff.
You wouldn’t trust just anyone with your family. THELMA has been briefed on yours — your household’s rhythms, your children’s names, your values, and that Thursday is date night. She holds all of it. Always.
Request early access →She reaches you by text. You can forward emails directly to her. And when you want to see everything at once — your Circle, your projects, your calendar — the dashboard is there.
The difference
Generic AI responds when you ask.
THELMA acts before you have to.
She cross-references your calendar against what you told her matters. Early dismissal Friday and your nanny is scheduled for 3pm? She catches it. Date night missing three weeks running? She says something. Liam’s birthday eleven days out with nothing started? She asks.
This is not AI that waits to be useful. This is AI that runs ahead of you — and only pulls you in when it actually needs you.
Let THELMA do what she can do — so you can do what only you can do.
What THELMA does
Everything your household runs on.
Handled.
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Conflict detection
She cross-references your calendar against your household — and against what you said matters. Early dismissal and the nanny doesn't know? She catches it before you do.
Proactive · always on03
2-way calendar sync
Connects to Google and Outlook. She reads from your calendars, writes back to them, and coordinates across every member of the household.
Google · Outlook04
Email forwarding inbox
Forward anything to thelma@meetthelma.com. School newsletters, invites, schedules — she reads it, pulls every date and action item, and puts it where it belongs.
Forward to act05
Gift registries & wishlists
She tracks every birthday and occasion. When the time is right, she builds a curated registry with real product links — and a shareable page guests can claim from.
Built for you · shareable06
She has your full household in context. At all times.
She isn't a generic model answering questions. She holds your household's complete profile — your Circle, your calendar, your open items, your history — and cross-references all of it before she responds. When you mention Liam's birthday, she already knows his age, his Circle profile, and whether a registry exists. She connects the dots before you have to.
Not a chatbot · a chief of staff07
Shared lists & projects
Grocery lists, packing lists, party planning, back-to-school — shared with whoever needs them, always current. Never lost in a text thread.
Always in sync09
Weekly meal plans
Built around how your family actually eats — restrictions, picky eaters, time, preferred stores. She builds the plan, writes recipes, and generates the grocery list.
Dinner sorted10
Privacy by design
You decide what THELMA sees, who she can contact, and what she can act on. Every data source is explicitly opt-in. No defaults that assume access.
Your data · your callTHELMA in action
Not waiting to be asked.
Already on it.
Real conversations — by text. The whole product lives here. She reaches you, you respond when you can, she handles the rest.
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Morning briefing
THELMA
Today · 8:02 AM
School newsletter
THELMA
Monday · 9:14 AM
Registry, built in minutes
THELMA
Yesterday · 2:18 PM
Birthday party planning
THELMA
Yesterday · 3:22 PM
Your Circle
The people in your household’s life
fill their own profiles.
THELMA builds profiles for your inner circle — your kids, your partner, your parents. But she also holds profiles for your extended network: nannies, coaches, teachers, sitters, vendors.
When you want someone to add their own information, THELMA sends them a personal invite link. They fill in their birthday, sizes, anniversary, wishlist. It lives in their profile. THELMA uses it proactively.
Inner circle
Your children, partner, parents — full profiles. Ages, sizes, allergies, current obsessions, important dates. She knows their whole story.
Extended circle
Nannies, coaches, teachers, sitters, vendors. Lighter profiles — contact info, roles, what they need to know. THELMA coordinates with them when needed.
Invite by link
Send someone a personal invite link. They fill in their own details — birthday, wishlist, sizes. It goes straight into their profile. No account required on their end.
Used proactively
She doesn't wait for you to ask. When it's your nanny's birthday or your sister's anniversary, THELMA surfaces it with enough lead time to actually do something about it.
Shared mental load
The load doesn’t have to be yours alone.
THELMA works for your whole household.
You set up the household. You define how it runs, what matters, and who has access to what. Then everyone who needs to be in the loop — is.
Your partner isn’t left out of the loop or waiting to be briefed. Your nanny isn’t calling to ask about pickup. Your household runs with everyone having exactly the information they need — and none they shouldn’t.
You — the primary owner
Full access. You define the household values, set permissions, and see everything. THELMA reports to you.
Morning briefing · full dashboard · all settings
Your partner — co-owner
Full household access. His own text thread, his own daily briefings, his own view of what needs attention. He's genuinely in it — not just CC'd.
Own briefings · own thread · full calendar
Your nanny or sitter
Linked with set permissions. She sees the kids' schedule, pickup info, and anything you explicitly share. Nothing else.
Kids' calendar · pickup details · you control the rest
Older kids
Connected with age-appropriate access. They can check in with THELMA, see their own schedule, and stay on top of what's theirs to manage.
Their schedule · their tasks · their view
Early access
“She texted me that early dismissal was Friday and asked if our nanny knew. I would have completely missed it. That was the moment I understood what this actually was.”
Early access member — Houston, TX
“I described how I want our household to run during setup and she's held that line ever since. It doesn't feel like an app. It feels like someone who actually knows us.”
Early access member — Austin, TX
Join the waitlist
Your family deserves
better than generic.
A small group of families is using THELMA now. Join the waitlist and we’ll reach out personally when your spot opens.
Request early access →No credit card. No spam. We’ll reach out personally when your spot opens.